What Is “Incel” Anyway?
Incel, otherwise known as “involuntary celebacy,” is a frequent condition of love shy (or dateless) men. Incel is precisely a lack of sex. In contrast, love shyness is a lack of intimacy at all levels. Many love shy men are uninterested in sex without emotion (for example, with prostitutes) and therefore love shyness and involuntary celibacy are one in the same. […]
REVIEW: Love Bold
Lovebold.com Our review: 5 out of 5 stars. The quick dish: The most practical, most important book we’ve found on how to cure love shyness. The book provides easy to understand, direct advice on how to be comfortably intimate with women. Most importantly, the advice has worked for the both of us. We also like that it’s not a PUA guide, […]
REVIEW: Shyness and Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatment
Our review: 3/5 stars. The quick dish: This is the book that started it all. Originally published in 1987, Dr. Brian Gilmartin sets out to establish an academic framework for studying the loveshy condition among males. Gilmartin does an excellent job of rigorously describing and defining what it means to be loveshy. He interviews over 200 men who meet his […]
REVIEW: The Love Shy Survival Guide
Our review: 2/5 stars. The quick dish: An informative, well-intentioned book by a love shy sufferer that, unfortunately, misses the mark. We appreciate that this book exists, since so few on the topic do exist, and he clarifies the definition of love shyness well, but ultimately the book suffers from bad advice. Do not take this as a survival guide, […]
“Losing It.” How To Make Your 1st Time A Little Less Awkward.
WARNING: This post contains graphic content. At loveshyness.org, we strive to give loveshy males all the information they need, including the graphic bits. If you get easily offended by sexual language, I suggest checking out one of our other articles. So … You’re About To Have Sex. As with all things, you will get better at sex with practice. Unfortunately, […]
